Whitman and Women: Take 2

This is my February 10th work! That said, I originally wrote this post blasting Whitman for his portrayal of women and the way he seems unable to separate them from being the vessels of life, as it were. But upon further thought, I’ve changed my mind entirely. So I deleted and I’m reposting. I’m allowed to contradict myself. I contain multitudes.

From what I gathered from Murison’s essay, she discusses the 1800s pearl-clutching in reaction to Whitman’s treatment of sexuality. Particularly his treatment of women’s sexuality, as modesty and privacy were integral to society’s definition of white women’s sexuality (which was inseparable from the heteronormative institution of marriage). Whitman, therefore, was lewd in discussing unmarried women as sexual beings. Intimacy is institutional.

Initially, I felt like Whitman played into this a bit. I focused on excerpts from “I Sing the Body Electric” where he describes women’s bodies in relation to motherhood and desire, while men were allowed to contain all the knowledge of the universe (see this post which covers what I’m talking about).

But I wanted to squash that initial reaction and give Whitman some grace. Like, alright, what was everyone else at the time writing about?

And I’ve decided that Whitman is radical in acknowledging that women have bodies at all. Bodies they should celebrate and “be not ashamed” of. In “A Woman Waits for Me,” he says:

“Without shame the man I like knows and avows the deliciousness of his sex,
Without shame the woman I like knows and avows hers.”

This right here is the open agency Whitman gives women. Whitman, in his Whitman way, throws modesty out the window. Men don’t need it, but neither do women, and that is definitely radical.

One thought on “Whitman and Women: Take 2

  1. “Whitman is radical in acknowledging that women have bodies at all. Bodies they should celebrate and ‘be not ashamed’ of.” Yes! I so agree with this! Reading this poem in 2026 initially gives me the ick due to the way he portrays women with so much emphasis on their patriarchal role and reproduction but in retrospect the fact that he even spoke about female sexuality in any form in the 1800s is super cool. Especially considering he was a queer man, so he had no inherent sexual desire for women. I think these poems have to be read in the context of the time period they were written in to truly be understood as Whitman intended them to be.

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